How Avoiding Sex Before Marriage will save your life

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Sex has become glamorized as the must-have tool in a relationship that has not been clearly defined and ordained by God.

Sex is used as a money-making tool, an apology tool, and a tool to prove masculinity. That is why it’s hard to talk to people about how to avoid sex before marriage.

Sex is a beautiful bond but the truth is, when it is misused, it can destroy a person’s life and put an entire generation in bondage.

Sex is a spiritual exercise and a covenant that involves an exchange of blood during the act. This means you take in the person’s spirit or baggage and whatever comes with them and vice versa.

That is why it is harder to break a blood covenant. I don’t know anyone who would give out their password to strangers

No one would ever do that but that is what happens when we just open our legs to some Tom, Dick and Harry.

You’re saying to your sex partner take my life and use it as you please. Permitting all sorts of foul spirits into our bodies through an illegal entry into the spirit realm.

That’s why you keep having strange nightmares. Tom has been sleeping with some other girls before you and

He became one with them in spirit, soul, and body. In the eyes of the law, they are married because there has been consummation.

He takes on their baggage and passes it onto you during sex. Now, you are jacked up by too many spirits, and your life isn’t yours anymore.

That’s why you find some people acting weird or foolish because of a sexual encounter they’ve had. They display the mannerism of their sex partner and wonder where they learned such behavior. Look no further, it is sex.

The reason God made sex for marriage was to help the couple(man and a woman) bond physically, spiritually, and emotionally without shame.  

Another reason God created sex was to keep the sanctity of marriage holy. The couple do not have to compare their sexual experience to anyone or anything.

Consequences of sex before marriage

1. You’re building your life on a faulty foundation:

Your relationship is not built on trust but on sexual benefits. Besides, you cannot use sex to hook a guy into loving you.

When a guy sleeps with a girl he feels he has conquered her. Even if you eventually get married, trust has been broken.

You might say in defense, “But I know a couple who did it but are happily married.”

“Do you live with them or do you know what happens behind closed doors? Think again!

2. You’re in bondage:

You’ve entered by blood covenant into the spirit realm illegally that’s why you keep having the sex nightmare. The person looks like him

But that’s not your boyfriend or ex that’s a familiar spirit that has taken the image of your sex partner to put you in bondage. Check the Bible!

And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, “The two are united into one.”

1 Corinthians 6:16 NLT

Nobody cares if you guys are engaged, it still doesn’t seem right before God to defile yourself before the actual wedding ceremony when you exchange your vows before God and your family members.

3. You lose your worth:

When a new car leaves the sales point, the value of that car goes down. That is what happens when you have sex outside marriage your value goes down.

4. You lose connection with God:

There is no greater joy than having a personal relationship with God. Even though God created sex, His intention was clear, to keep it within the confines of marriage.

Premarital sex keeps you apart from God and you become a tool of manipulation for the devil.

The benefits of waiting until marriage

1.1 You have peace of mind.

Saving yourself for marriage is not just for your future husband or wife. It is for your peace and sanity.

You save yourself the stress of confessing one thing or the other to your partner.

You are also not afraid of someone blackmailing you with your mistakes from the past.

1.2 You enjoy the blessing of obedience

The misconceptions that people have about God are that he loves to give rules and punish you for your sins.

Every rule God has ever given to us in the Holy Bible is to save us from trouble and for our peace of mind.

Yes, you might feel aroused which is normal but don’t let a few minutes of pleasure ruin everything.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

God respects our freedom but our freedom should not become our captivity.

1.3 You Save Time and Money

You’re not afraid of going to the doctor because you don’t have an STD to hide.

You can put your money, time, and energy into other important things.

1.4 You Enjoy Generational Blessings

Some of the problems we have in our world come through misplaced sex. From Bible times until this moment, sex outside an ordained godly marriage has caused many problems.

Some people are unhappy today because they were born outside wedlock.

When we do things God’s way He places His blessings on it and we can pass it on to generations yet unborn.

1.5 You can choose right

You are not making decisions based on emotions. Your sex drive is not making you make decisions out of pressure.

You can choose what relationships you want or don’t.

Anyone who loves you, must respect your decision, and time and must protect you.

To truly love someone you must first understand the love of Jesus Christ and the sacrifice He made

On the cross of Calvary to reconcile us to the Father (Almighty God). He also gave us what satan stole from us.

That is the real definition of love. 

“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.”

John 15:13 ESV

1.6 Your Respect Is Intact

You command respect one way or the other. You might not know this or you might even be the least popular person among your peers.

It is better to be right with God than to be right with men who can turn their backs on you at any time.

“This is what the LORD says: “Cursed are those who put their trust in mere humans, who rely on human strength and turn their hearts away from the LORD. They are like stunted shrubs in the desert, with no hope for the future. They will live in the barren wilderness, in an uninhabited salty land. ”

Jeremiah 17:5-6 NLT

Christianity is not a religion it is a lifestyle.

I Had Sex Before Marriage Will God Forgive Me?

Most definitely, God didn’t send His only begotten son Jesus Christ to condemn us. We all deserve grace.

God decided to redeem us through the death of Christ. No matter how bad our sins are He is ready to forgive us.

But we must be willing to truly repent and give God the reins of our lives for Him to guide us. But you have to refuse the temptation of going back to your sexual sin.

If you want to surrender your life to Christ, you can say this prayer right now.

Dear father, thank you for this opportunity to start afresh. I confess my sins and I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour.

Please, come into my life and let the Holyspirit be my guide. Today by the Blood of Jesus I break off every soul tie(mention the name of the person/people you’ve slept with)

Thank you for accepting me back to your family in Jesus name Amen

For further reading, you can read the following scriptures: John 3:16 AMPC,

Ephesians 1 NLT

2 Corinthians 5:17 NLT

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